Skip navigation! Story from Sex. In a way, anal sex is like cilantro: some people find it scrumptious in moderation, while others tried it once, absolutely hated it, and vowed to avoid it forever. Like cilantro haters-turned-lovers, there's a subset of people who swear you can acquire a taste for anal sex if you do it enough.
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Please refresh the page and retry. V aginal sex has never been any good for me. That was over a year ago. My boyfriend, I think, would prefer vaginal. This has made me very anxious.
Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
Anal sex gets a bad rap. But I am a warm blooded woman that happens to love anal sex. But even more appalling are the ridiculous articles by women who do love anal sex as a degradation to the female race. I read a twisted article from Vice about why women should only have anal sex.
Pop quiz! Lots of women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex. Or, you know, you can do butt play and leave it at that forever, because it's your booty and you make the rules. You hopefully already know the basics: ALWAYS use lube, never put something that was in your butt in your mouth or vagina, and butt plugs are your friend. But there's so much more to know about anal play, and so here, several sexperts break down their best anal foreplay tips for both first-timers and experienced butt travelers.